Five Mistakes to Avoid When Proposing
- Proposals Of New York
- May 12, 2023
- 2 min read
Updated: Feb 20, 2024
Congratulations on reaching this step! Let's give your partner the proposal they've been dreaming of! Even though the proposal moment might be short and sweet, it still needs preparation and careful planning in order to go off without anything going wrong. We assure you a little bit of preparation can go a long way to create that picture-perfect moment that you'll cherish forever.

Here are a few things to avoid when you pop the question:
Involving too many people
The desire to involve as many people as possible in the planning of a public proposal leads to plenty of challenges. Since there are more people to talk to about your plans, organizing can be a hassle. In a public environment, its more difficult to control the environment around you.
Not practicing the speech
There are times when things appear better in theory than in practice. So that you are aware of the main points you want to make in your speech, practice what you will say before the big question.
Being too nervous
A marriage proposal typically leads to strong emotions. You are likely to be nervous but learn to regulate your emotions before the big day. Too much anxiety can cause significant mistakes, such as forgetting the ring or forgetting what to say.
Following a trend instead of personalizing
What may seem 'cool' to you may be completely the opposite for your partner. Also, keep in mind your personality as a couple. A public proposal might not be the best choice if you are not ready to pop the question in front of a crowd, strangers filming you on their phones, and them congratulating you after. Make sure you both have a good time. A marriage proposal is a wonderful occasion, and this day will always be remembered.
Not documenting the proposal
No, your phone propped up against something doesn't count! This is a once-in-a-lifetime moment and you need to make sure you capture everything. Let PONY's professional team handle it for you! We can even adjust the package according to your needs. Think of us as your third wheel who happens to also take good photos!

Planning a marriage proposal is difficult, which is why you should turn to us! PONY can help you plan your dream proposal! Get started by leaving us a DM on our Instagram @proposalsofnewyork
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